In the 1960s, during the heat of the civil rights, student rights and anti-war movements, women, both black and white, found themselves relegated to the domestic side of leftist activism. Much to the surprise and disgust of leftist activist women, left-wing males let movement women know that their role was to cook, clean, make the coffee, and make themselves available for sex whenever the men wanted it. Author Gail Collins covers this issue in her book, When Everything Changed, an overview of the women’s movement during the last fifty years.
Not every man treated every woman as a subservient being, but the treatment was widespread enough that many women finally decided to form their own movement groups, giving birth to the Second Wave of the women’s liberation movement.
When a few women attended the New Politics conference in Chicago in the ‘60s, they presented a resolution calling for equal pay for equal work and abortion on demand. The resolutions committee refused to bring the resolution to the floor for a vote. When one of the women, Shulamith Firestone, went to the podium to protest, the conference chairman patted her on the head and said, “Cool down, little girl. We have more important things to talk about than women’s problems,” according to Collins.
One would think, given all that has changed since the 1960s, women’s issues would also have taken on more significance. Nowadays, many women work at jobs that were once male-only territory. Women work as engineers, CEOs, school administrators, doctors, attorneys, judges, pharmacists, legislators, welders, truck drivers, construction workers, fire fighters, police officers, and soldiers. In fact, women are free to enter any field men enter as long as they meet the same requirements men have to meet.
Women now have it all—and more. One thing women can do that men can’t do is give birth. It’s not that men can’t become parents. They do and most of them make excellent parents. It’s still the case, though, that most women have the major responsibility for child rearing. Granted, the situation in that area has changed somewhat for the better since the ‘60s. Even so, most families in which both parents work outside the home still struggle to find adequate child care. Single women who are the sole support of their children have an even harder time, with the mother juggling work and home duties with little or no break.
It doesn’t take much imagination, given the demands of child-rearing, to extrapolate that for women who want a career outside of the home one of the most important elements of gaining that career is for women to have control over their reproduction.
Since the early ‘60s, when the Pill first came on the market, many women have had the freedom to have sex without getting pregnant. Women also have available many other forms of birth control. The fact is, though, even the most careful women can end up with unwanted pregnancies. While the anti-choice crowd bemoans the number of abortions that have taken place since the Roe v. Wade decision in 1973, data from the World Health Organization (pdf) show that women have always used abortion, legal or illegal, to control their reproduction.
The number of women who choose to have abortions also shows that women consider controlling their reproduction an important element in controlling their lives. Yet, in the current climate, even the most liberal of men don’t consider reproductive rights an important part of progressive politics.
This fact has been brought home to liberal women activists in many ways. A male political strategist recently said that women pro-choice activists shouldn’t make an issue out of abortion in the state legislature because it takes the focus off more important issues.
Then there’s the member of progressive political group, a man, who when faced with the suggestion that abortion rights should be one of the issues the group worked on, asked how abortion rights was a progressive issue. This man obviously never had to hold down a full time job while raising children as a single parent.
Most mind-boggling is the attitude of many male Democratic office holders, some of whom even claim to be pro-choice, but who won’t touch the issue of abortion rights unless they are forced to. Then there are the Democratic politicians who make no bones about the fact that they’re anti-choice and if they had their way, women would be plunged once again into a pre-Roe world. These politicians aren’t shy about legislating away women’s abortion rights. Oh, yes, they believe in equal rights and all that other good stuff, but they don’t give a hang about what women have to go through to control their fertility.
We are far, far from the ‘60s. The songs that moved us so during that era are now used in TV ads to move products. War protests warrant only slight coverage from mainstream media focused on a few noisy Tea Party activists on the Washington Mall or in Town Hall meetings. And when a million people came to Washington in 2004 to protest George W. Bush’s anti-choice policies, the march was barely mentioned anywhere.
In the meantime, male-led state legislators around the country are taking reproductive rights away from women as fast as they can. They are defunding Planned Parenthood and making so many restrictive abortion laws that women in some states may find themselves traveling long distances to find an abortion provider. Or they could find one hidden away somewhere around town to get an abortion, just as they had to do in the ‘60s.
Women’s control over their reproduction is definitely a progressive issue. It relates to a woman’s ability to work, to have a family when she decides is the best time to do so, to earn money to support her family, and to find and keep jobs that pay equally with the jobs men get. No issue is more progressive and right now no issue is more pressing for women. The hope is that women in 2011 won’t settle for a pat on the head, a “cool down, little girl.” They didn’t in the ‘60s and they shouldn’t now.














Comments (8)
Yes, Diane, women have struggled since the beginning of history for equal rights and treatment. Quite frankly, men have maintained their dominance because of physical strength. Even in Biblical history, the culture allowed men to interpret the message from God through the prophets, who were male. The New Testament era finds the male very much inclined to use culture to put women in their place. But, if you have a 'red letter' copy of the New Testament that is pretty much universally accepting of direct quotes of Jesus, you will be hard pressed to find Jesus giving men any advantage or authority over women.
Today, the political trend is working toward, "You will agree with me, theologically, because I will pass laws that force you to."
There are some who give social reasons, other than religious, to back their promotion of civil rights restrictions and sexual orientation standards. But, for the most part, the push is coming from religious dogma and doctrine.
Contrary to what the religious rights folks are claiming, our forefathers wrote the constitution with careful wording that said no laws would be based only on religious grounds. They were very familiar with the problems of religious persecution. And, quite frankly some of the persecutors were Christians demanding that everyone would abide by their interpretation of Scripture. They worded the constitution to protect all religious groups (Christian or otherwise) from outsiders (government included).
We can't pass laws that dictate abortion for any reason if the individual is religiously opposed to abortion. We can't pass laws that force adults to be subserviant to anyone on the basis of their gender, race, or religious doctrine (Christian or otherwise).
Posted by Ken Poland
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June 14, 2011 6:12 PM
Posted on June 14, 2011 18:12
Ken--Yesterday, I had a conversation with a friend who once again harped on her theme of men and how inferior they are to women. I have three sons, two brothers, and I husband who does most of the housework so I can piddle around writing. (I do cook and do the laundry, just so you know I don't make him do everything.) I challenged her--she has sons too and I can't understand her antipathy toward men. I like men and I get along with most of them just fine. I worked with men for years and always had a good relationship with them.
But as you point out, some men seem to think they have a mandate to control women and what they do with their lives. This is the case even with some liberal men who should know better. I'm always flummoxed when I run into that controlling attitude among the liberal men I know.
As for the others, they are doing their best to pass laws to make some of us subservient to others. Those of us who think that's wrong, male or female, have our work cut out for us.
Posted by Diane
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June 15, 2011 9:43 AM
Posted on June 15, 2011 09:43
Great article, Diane!
Posted by Pamela Jean
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June 16, 2011 9:08 AM
Posted on June 16, 2011 09:08
Thanks, Pamela Jean. When I finish Collins' book, I'll post a review.
Posted by Diane
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June 16, 2011 9:24 AM
Posted on June 16, 2011 09:24
Thanks for the wonderful blog, Diane. It's good that you're keeping the Democrats accountable on their backsliding on women's issues. You put a historical context as to why it's important for women to have control over their reproductive lives. Thanks, too, Ken for your points about the constitution and the necessity of the separation of the church and state.
Grace Paley once wrote that the feminist movement was good for both men and women, as it freed both sexes from the constraints of stereotypical gender roles. We all have our prejudices that we have to overcome, and many men have begun to overcome gender prejudice because feminists spoke out. The Democratic legislators have to learn that women's reproductive rights are not something that should be compromised or negotiated. Thank you for speaking out, and I hope activists continue to speak out and put the Democratics feet on the fire.
Posted by Angelo Lopez
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June 18, 2011 12:07 PM
Posted on June 18, 2011 12:07
Thanks, Angelo. Paley, of course, knew what she was talking about. Unfortunately, I think we're witnessing a backlash against women's rights in general. I don't know how much effect I have in our local party politics and as far as the national party, I have no effect at all. I don't plan to give up agitating any time soon, though.
Posted by Diane
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June 19, 2011 1:00 PM
Posted on June 19, 2011 13:00
This is a great book. I am so happy you reviewed this, Diane. Thanks!
Posted by Darrell Hamlin
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June 22, 2011 5:30 PM
Posted on June 22, 2011 17:30
Thanks, Darrell. I'm about three-fourths of the way through the book. I plan to post a more comprehensive review when I finish it. It's a long book, but it makes for a fascinating read.
Posted by Diane
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June 23, 2011 9:43 AM
Posted on June 23, 2011 09:43