The world lost a great woman today. Never was there a more caring, more compassionate, more brilliant, and hilarious woman with each of those qualities and more all wrapped into the heart of one activist.
For those across the state and country, Jana was a bundle of light and beauty that ended all too soon. Search is underway for a person of interest which you can view at the link above.
I first met Jana with our University's Gay/Straight Alliance probably 2002 or 2003, but it wasn't until 2004 when we became dear friends. You see we both were working on a fierce campaign for the US Congress in one of the toughest elections either of us had ever seen.
Her dedicated activism alerted others in the area so it was no surprise that she was recruited to serve on staff. I was intimidated by her because she was tall and gorgeous! But we became fast friends as the two of us gushed about our crushes and bitched about politics both interoffice politics and global policy. She was probably a better friend than I was. I remember her talking me down many times when I was upset about the great injustices that happened to all progressives in 2004. She always had a great way of putting things in perspective.
From there she became a lobbyist for causes that few are willing to step-up for. She defended women, women's rights, and the access to health care not to mention the dozens of other local issues that she was so passionate about.
In 2006 it was easy to know who I needed at my side when starting another campaign. I begged her to be my deputy campaign manager and help keep me organized and help me build relationships with some of the people she'd known at the Capital that previous session. She knew everyone. Every politician, every member, every lobbyist, every staffer, every janitor, or member of the Park Police.
There was one particular event in 2006 I will never forget. When we were at the Federated Democratic Women's Caucus event in - I think it was Manhattan or .. maybe Hutch, I can't remember. We were there with all the politico's but our favorite was John Doll running for Congress in the Kansas 1st District. John is an every man kinda guy and we were all talking outside before the event began. The woman who was supposed to sing the Star Spangled Banner somehow didn't show up and I told them that Jana would be perfect ... because... Jana is an AMAZING singer. She agreed to do it with a giant button with our candidate's name on it of course. John Doll joked with her outside "Don't forget the words!" She laughed... and then proceeded to sing the Star Spangled Banner... and forget the words. She blamed John Doll. I told her at the time it didn't matter because at least she was wearing our button and she rolled her eyes.
We had this intern on the 2006 campaign that is truly adorable - still adorable. Jana met her at a high school event where she spoke about women's health and remembered this young woman being particularly remarkable. So, when the time came that we needed some youngsters to help with a mailing we called her and a few of her friends. I remember that her friends totally crapped out on her, and this wonderful intern worked so hard all by herself to finish everything. We stayed in contact with her just to make sure she was ok, make sure she was taken care of and making responsible choices like we were some kind of parental force. But again - that was how she was. Understanding, concerned, loyal and loving, regardless of who you were.
That was the year that Jana also got THE HOUSE. The house was a big deal because it has this porch that is unbelievable. It calls you to it from the street as if to say - please... come sit... have a drink, lounge for hours. And my lord we did. We would work some days in the 2006 race from the porch if weather permitted, and our laptops would be connected to a giant orange extension cord that went through the windows.
When I moved to California at the end of 2006 I decided I wanted to come back in May for my birthday and spend a week just BEING in Lawrence. My mom (who lives in Oklahoma) and my aunt met me there for Memorial Day weekend, but the days leading up to the weekend I was crashing with Jana on her sofa. We all loved that house. Not just the porch parties or the availability of the sofa or the big fluffy kitty, but the way that it felt to be there. It was like the epicenter of positivity and joy. The creaks in the beautiful wood floors were musical and the hidden back door key that everyone knew about was epic.
I remember trying to talk her out of going to law school and telling her how important it was to have people like her out there helping to save the world. She promised she would still work to save the world with me, but said that she was going to do it from a different vantage point. She wanted to be a public defender and work for people who couldn't afford lawyers. I tried to convince her she needed to be a trial lawyer so she could help people like our friends raise money and get elected.. . but she insisted on helping people who couldn't afford good lawyers first.
When I moved away we lost touch but probably 6 months ago before I came back to Kansas, she called out of the blue on the way to her dad's house late at night and we just talked and talked.
We gossiped about politicians we knew and staffers we couldn't STAND and gushed about the hot ones we loved. I told her that I was sorry I never called, but I never wanted to bother her studying but she promised me that it was no bother. But I never called.
A week ago I was online blogging or researching and a friend instant messaged me that she was studying at Henry's - a local coffee house in Lawrence, and that Jana was at another table near by working on some stuff from work. I remember typing "Tell Jana that she is lovely and amazing and I am so proud of her." I'm so so grateful that my friend told her what I typed. She said Jana laughed and said "Oh, Sarah...." Which was normal. Poopooing her gifts was just her way.
We were going to save the world. I'll move forward knowing that without her it makes it a even harder. And without her I'll know that so many people will lose an opportunity of having their life be blessed by this remarkable woman. Those of us who knew her knew how lucky we were.
The family asks that in lieu of flowers, please contribute to:
Jana Mackey Support for Public Advocacy Fund
c/o Dean of Law
Green Hall
1535 W. 15th St.
Lawrence, KS 66045
For funeral information please email me
sarahkatheryn at gmail dot com









Comments (19)
Well put, Sarah. While I only would consider myself as an acquaintance with mutual friend and mutual politics, this is a terrible and tragic loss for not only the progressive movement but for everyday Kansans and humanity in general. Jana was truly a person who believed in what she did and, for that, I always held and still hold a high amount of respect for her.
The apparent selfishness of this act makes it all the more devastating and difficult to understand. How can anyone commit such a terrible act?
Posted by levihenry
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July 4, 2008 11:17 PM
Posted on July 4, 2008 23:17
Sarah, I am so sorry for your and everyone's loss. What a tragedy.
Sarah, you wrote a truly beautiful and touching tribute to your friend. You spoke so from your heart and gave those of us who never knew Jana a real glimpse of who she was.
Thank you for sharing this.
Posted by Pam Pohly
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July 4, 2008 11:30 PM
Posted on July 4, 2008 23:30
How incredibly sad. She was so young with so much promise.
Posted by Nora Thomason
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July 5, 2008 12:31 AM
Posted on July 5, 2008 00:31
Sarah- thank you so, so much for saying what I've been trying to think of how to say all day. Jana was my friend and Jana was my co-worker, and I honestly can't believe she's just- gone.
Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends all over the country.
Posted by Jason Croucher
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July 5, 2008 12:35 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 12:35
Thanks for the words of support. It felt a little better to write it all out, and remember the fun stuff about her, but when I woke up this morning... she was still gone and that part is really starting to sink in
Posted by Sarah Burris
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July 5, 2008 12:49 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 12:49
What a beautiful tribute. Jana was an amazing woman.
Posted by Lisa Koch
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July 5, 2008 2:32 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 14:32
This young dedicated activist volunteered her time 24/7 to help battered women (she didn't know) save their lives and escape abuse - and, she, herself became a victim to similar abuse. I think that one of the best ways to honor this young woman if for each person to volunteer some of their own efforts to battered women's shelters or abused women's hotlines or programs. Not only would we all be filling the void left behind by Jana's untimely death, but we would also be doing our part to keep others from suffering the same tragedy that Jana did.
I did not know Jana - but, I will make calls on Monday and see how best I can contribute some of my time to one of own local women's protection programs - as my way of saying this young woman did not die in vain.
Posted by Jerry Jacobs
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July 5, 2008 4:28 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 16:28
Sarah:
I will always remember those fun days at Nancy's office in the summer of 2004. Jana and I had many conversations on our smoke breaks working the phones in the evenings. I will miss her smile, and the way she always made me feel like we'd known each other forever. She is still a giant to me.
Jeff Z
Posted by kdyellowdog
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July 5, 2008 6:08 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 18:08
Jana's funeral is scheduled for Wednesday at 2pm at Liberty Hall, Lawrence, KS.
Posted by Pam Pohly
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July 5, 2008 8:43 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 20:43
Thanks for posting that Pam, I was trying to but the net connection is pretty bad
Posted by Sarah Burris
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July 5, 2008 9:09 PM
Posted on July 5, 2008 21:09
University of Kansas Dean of the School of Law Gail Agrawal issued the following statements regarding the death of KU law student Jana Mackey:
Posted by Lola Wheeler
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July 6, 2008 8:13 AM
Posted on July 6, 2008 08:13
This article appeared today in Jana's hometown newspaper:
Posted by Lola Wheeler
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July 6, 2008 9:38 AM
Posted on July 6, 2008 09:38
I would like to say Thank You from the bottom of my heart. Without the help and support of Jana's friends I don't how we would get through this.
Posted by Travis Mackey
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July 6, 2008 5:02 PM
Posted on July 6, 2008 17:02
Sarah
Thank you so much for the beautiful tribute. The first times I met Jana on the campaign trail she was hanging out with you. I remembering commenting to a political friend of mine that I thought you two had such a close relationship and were enjoying each other which during the stress of a campaign often doesn't happen. I have seen many relationships go south during a campaign. This says a lot about you and Jana to become good friends during the heat of a campaign and still have fun. Jana was one classy woman! My heart goes out to her loved ones.
becky fast
Posted by bfast
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July 7, 2008 12:07 AM
Posted on July 7, 2008 00:07
I knew Jana in her youth as I was a friend of her brother, Todd. I remember Jana as a person with such a tender heart, always looking out for her two brothers.
Although it has been many years since I have crossed paths with Jana, I was not suprised to see what wonderful things she has contributed to the world. Learning about all her efforts and accomplishment makes me want to be a better person. I wanted to write to let her family know I am thinking of them- you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Mindy
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July 7, 2008 6:04 PM
Posted on July 7, 2008 18:04
The university relations office at the University of Kansas in Lawrence has issued directions to the funeral of former resident Jana Mackey:
Mackey's funeral is set for 2 p.m. Wednesday in Liberty Hall at 644 Massachusetts in downtown Lawrence.
Because of ongoing construction work on the Kansas Turnpike, it is suggested to take the East Lawrence exit, No. 204, off I-70.
Turn left, or south, at the first stoplight, which leads to North Second Street that leads to downtown Lawrence.
Proceed south on North Second, and after crossing the Kansas River bridge, that street becomes Vermont. Take Vermont Street south to Seventh Street, turn left (east) one block to Massachusetts and turn left (north) to 644 Massachusetts.
Friends and family will also gather to celebrate Mackey’s life on Wednesday night at The Replay Lounge, 946 Massachusetts St., in Lawrence.
Posted by Pam Pohly
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July 7, 2008 6:59 PM
Posted on July 7, 2008 18:59
I only went to one year of high school with Jana, but remember very clearly her sense of style and personality and beauty and talent. She was truly an amazing person and I hope so much her hard work will continue to live on after she has passed, and that her family may find peace knowing she's shining down on everyone from above.
R.I.P.
Posted by pseudovegan
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July 7, 2008 7:17 PM
Posted on July 7, 2008 19:17
Thanks, Becky. Its true we formed a very tight bond, but honestly that was how it was with Boyda's 2004 staff.
We all talked about it kinda like we were all in a play - and since Jana and I both did theatre we knew what that relationship meant. You form these incredibly close close relationships with people during times of high high stress and you are only there for each other.
Some people turn that into a way to distance each other or can't wait to get away from it - those of us who were staff in 2004 are still all very close and that's why I think so many of them were natural re-hires for me in 2006 on the other campaign we were working for. Its a kind of family loyalty.
And in terms of Jana and me it really became an important relationship because 2006 was also a tough time for me personally - and I feel like she really helped me get through that by providing a lot of perspective and understanding at a time I needed it most. I'm kinda thinking at this point that maybe she was just on a higher plain, ya know. Someone else described her as being in a really good place, and maybe that's what it was. I'm just lucky. All I can do is be grateful for the deep friendship we shared and hold those close to me a little tighter each time I see them. And never ever take it for granted.
Posted by sarahkatheryn
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July 7, 2008 10:36 PM
Posted on July 7, 2008 22:36
I was a classmate of Jana's and she truly was an amazing person. She achieved so many things and still had many more to come. It's such a tragedy that something like this happened to her. My heart & prayers are with her friends and family.
Posted by Tammy
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July 8, 2008 12:44 PM
Posted on July 8, 2008 12:44