I believe that we all have a path that fits who we are and what we want. We also have a unique way of living and being on our path that optimizes our potential and effectiveness. It's not just what we do but also how we do it. Finding this path and living it allows each of us to express our natural gifts and create unparalleled value for ourselves and others.
Unfortunately there is rarely support for the process of finding your path. School stresses academic prowess over self-knowledge and personal development. It's seemingly more important to get a successful job than a job you love. Society gives us the message that if we are cool and successful, we will be happy.
So we end up full of idea and beliefs about the way things are that aren't even really our own. How can we find a path that fits who we are with everyone else's shit in the way? We can't.
So, how does someone find their path?
Finding your path comes from within. It is about realizing what is already there rather than going out and looking for something. It is a process that is facilitated by self-awareness and mindfulness - by really, truly, and sometimes painfully listening to your heart, gut, intuition, and your life - and living accordingly. It requires you to surrender and let go of old patterns and beliefs that you begin to realize are holding you back. Other times, the process demands a revolution against the confines of conventions, norms, and what's acceptable. Whether you are letting go or rebelling, if you are moving closer to your true self, you are finding your path.
The rewards are tremendous. The process is full of learning and growth. And when you are on your path it feels natural. It may not always be easy but there is a feeling of rightness that comes from knowing that you are doing what you are supposed to be doing. You are realizing your potential, expressing your natural gifts, and creating value for yourself and others. This is a gift for all of us.












Comments (3)
Adrian,
What a encouraging and affirming message! Thanks.
Posted by Adrienne Rodriguez | March 30, 2007 4:44 PM
Posted on March 30, 2007 16:44
Adrian, welcome to Everyday Citizen! We are so glad you have joined us!
Posted by Nora Thomason
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March 30, 2007 4:46 PM
Posted on March 30, 2007 16:46
Great post. Welcome pathfinder! Glad you are here. John R.
Posted by John | March 30, 2007 5:50 PM
Posted on March 30, 2007 17:50